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Thursday, February 10, 2011

Sweet & Bitterness

10th February 2011

Mood: Sleepy

Heartbroken - is learning process. And time is indeed the greatest healer. Why?

Love often brings trouble, but i wonder why humans still want to try to love each other? Some people are lucky and can be with the one they truly love and it's never an issue for the rest of their life. However some are not. People says, we must get our hearts broken at least once. This is a good sign, having a broken heart. Despite the sad, depression, loneliness, and regret feeling, you are learning to grow mature, helps you to become stronger and experience something that might change your believe or the way you behave. Perhaps, it helped to shape who you are today and changed the way you see things. You will never learn, unless you experience. Only time can prove this. It is just like a learning path as to what you really do want in a lifelong partner.

We always see movies about love on the big screen likes cinema or TV, and that we can live happily ever after, but it's not real life. The fact of the matter is, love is not as simple as math calculation. When we are young, love is just like everything, simple like magic. When it is over, they feel like their life is over. It is because of inexperience, then they come to learn what we called "heartbroken." Life is one big risk, as so is love. If you do not take the risk you will never know. Taking that risk in return you can either be loved or heart broken. But never ever think of ending your life. You have no right to do that. A lot of youngster nowadays seem lost of direction. Love is just one of the aspect you need to face in life. If you have the courage to end your life, why not take the courage to heal the broken heart and face the problem.

I hate this heartbroken feeling too. I agree, love, can be sweet but at the same time, can be bitter. It's not fun at all. I've been tired of crying over the night before. People says you need to stay strong, and forget the passed. But it's not as easy as reformatted a computer. I realized, that human brain is kinda weird sometimes. They tend to keep more those hurtful feeling, and sad memory rather than happy one. Broken heart is like a broken glass. Once broke, you will need to work hard in order to fit the jagged pieces back together. However, it will not be as perfect as it is, at the first stage. It's a tough road to heal a broken heart. Moreover in love, women and men is different. Women are more likely to become depressed than men. Somehow, all we need is time. The feeling of disappointments and lost loves, has a leave a footprint on your broken heart. Although you might be in love again, but sometimes you will start to rethink, if the guys or girls you 'thought' you loved really wasn't love at all. After all, we are fear of being hurt again. No matter how, love and don't hurt yourself. Life is more important than any other things. Looking for solution and not avoid it.

"It is better to have loved and lost love, than to have never loved at all"

(Well that's just my personal opinion, no offense to anyone!)

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