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Thursday, November 19, 2009

Life still have to go on...

19th November 2009

就算世界没童话...也希望我们还有对话...

Life is like a bowl of chilies...sometimes you might feel great, sometimes spicy, or even suffering...when we were born, we just enjoy our life as our parent already arrange and plan well everything for us...as we growth up, we still enjoy our life, as our parent still care and look after us...we always feel there's a angel beside us...

However, as we grow older, most of us will start questioning the meaning of life...If you're questioning the meaning of life, it is because you've been unhappy....We are all human being that living in the same world...but doesn't mean each of us are same - life...Chinese always say "同人不同命"..i can't say how much true it is, because myself has been questioning the meaning of life too...what our life's purpose is, why do things happen to me and how to find a solution for it...This has been the ultimate question since the beginning. It seems inherent in our nature to ask questions like this, do we?

We've been go through happy, sad, angry, envy, worry, scare, hate...Hence we should understand that every part of this, every story that we've been go through, we must have learn something from it..but i've been questioning, do we still feel happy even have gone through and learn from it? All i know is happiness doesn't depend on anything that has or has not happened in the past, nor happened in future. I know some of you might pretend happy, even you are not. Myself are same. Does this means are we kidding ourselves? Are we ignoring the ugly truth about life that's right in front of our eyes and pretending that we are happy in our fantasy world that exists only in our brain? Well, guess what. That is exactly how every happy person in the world acts. Because the reason is that, every unhappy person will construct a fantasy world to make themselves happy...but this is normal...this is part of life where we need to learn the "unhappy"...

Some might have gone through "suffering sadness"...that will never recover or it will take a long long time...but some might just gone through "puppy sadness"...this will recover normally after a month or two...when you are unhappy, just to cry it out, it sure will make you healthier and relaxing....no one else can do a thing for you, only yourself to decide to be happy whether or not your logical mind thinks it is rational to be happy or you deserve to be happy. You absolutely will not be happy for any length of time until you decide to, and if you decide to, you can b happy in the face of the most miserable circumstances. I know only time can heal the sadness...dun forget, as a friend will always by ur side and accompany you, support you..Sometimes, I always think that, if you lost something or he/she is gone to somewhere, you still able to get it back, or find them, but something that has lost, or no longer exist in our world, no matter how hard we search for it, it will never return...even we wish to meet them...it has become totally impossible...we only can wish they are happy in another world...this sadness one will never know how it feels unless one have experience it...i've never been happy since then...my friends say i look happy all the time, but one never how sad inside..

不是我不明白

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