Search This Blog

Friday, April 25, 2008

Getting married?

25th April 2008

Are you ready to tie the knot?
Is marriage is necessary?
Ready to become bride?



Some people's say weddings turn perfectly sane women into "neurotic control freaks"....so is that true? Frightening? In my own opinions, it depends on the person themselves...now let's share why some peoples said "I did" and "I don't"...

Before start, let share's about the word "wedding"...what does it normally means to you? For me, just like a women need to dress like a toilet roll, perhaps...^o^....Once, I come through a magazine, and find this quote quiet interesting...

"Weddings are riddled with antique attitudes. Their traditional rituals are of another age. At the church, the man waits for the woman because she's the prize. She arrives - unrecognisable, a satin-wrapped doll - to be handed over by her protecter/father to her husband, the new carer. She doesn't speak -unlike her father, her husband and his best friend, who all get to make speeches...about her." Miranda Sawyer, 2008

I did...

Because you know urself has find the Mr Right!! Because, it was the best way to tell the world you loved him/her....Marriage itself is fine. Two people loving each other enough to share their lives is as much as anyone could want. For me, marriage is forever, and i think it would be the happiest day of my life....well...how about married life? The relationship won't altered, the only downside, is that "you" are being called as "wife"...and of coz, the changed of name, or title...from miss to mrs... (sound like getting older...^o^)...But you sure will liked it soon....Plus, marriage making it official, ensured that if anything happened to either of us, the future would still be secure for our daughter or son, i believe.

And everyday - on your finger, is a reminder of the commitment you made in the shape of the wedding ring. This ring always remind you, your responsible, and there's you is someone you cared for, loved for. It's a public and private declaration that what you and your partner has promise to each other - have someone you loves, and spent the whole life with, it's really valuable, and that alone makes it worth it...

I dont...

But marriage these days seems to be all about the wedding, not about what happens after. Every year, we see people getting marriage - getting divorce....especially in newspaper, such as those celebrity always make heading.... today get married, tomollow divorced...

We lived according to our needs, and desires - so why still want to put yourself into this kind of old fashion formatted, "marriage" ? Every year, watching friends or hearing news of peoples go through a fairy tale loved story and ended up with break-up....A lot's of questions sure surrounding us - why are we still falling for the fairy tale of the big white dress? You have great jobs, great friends, great lovers, and great prospect, isn't tat enough? Why are so many of us still eager to force our relationships into an old-fashioned format?

And remember that unhealthty relationship can lead to unhappy mental...stress, and unhappy can damage your physical health. Don't put yourself into struggled - divorced can brings unhappy negative issue both to you and your family...for example, Britney and Kelvin divorced and both of them, put themselves into newspapers heading - fighting for their son....is this what they want when they decide to getting married?

Well, weddings is romantic, but one things for sure is that everyday you waking up, and you know the one beside you is your choosing partner - you staying with him, because you loved him, rather than staying with them because you have a legal contract with him.

Conclusion, so what's your decision? Do or don't.....There's a ring, certificate, the change of name - For me, the only things i keep in mind, and i believe what keep a couple together are fate, luck, care and lot's of hard word. I believe both of us work together, we sure meet the future....

2 comments:

Darus said...

waah...Elice, why suddenly the marriage thingy? Planning to marry? :D

金太郎 said...

まさか家のエレベーターでフ ェ ラされるなんて思ってなかったよ。。ww
「ここでフ ェ ラさせてくれたらもっと報 酬あげるよ♪」
って言葉に負けましたwww
途中で扉が開いた時は焦ったけど、おかげでもっとオッキしたwww
http://pak3.net/yutori/